Bars around here often have two shifts. When a woman sees that her friends like you too or even better — her female friends are attracted to youit makes her feel more comfortable hooking up with you. Behaving as though they have already won is a deliberate technique to get themselves in the right frame of mind before the fight.
Spanish society has loosened up beyond the legal realm, too, of course, and many of Granada's gays spontaneously bring up discussions of the difference, the change, the general sense of freedom and acceptance that has spread across the society since the end of the Franco era when it comes to all things homosexual a general acceptance reflected in the success of Pedro Almodovar's films, for one.
Most of the women you I almost never go to nongay bars in nightclubs are the innocent looking women that you see during the day. In part this was because he sought to be open not only about his sexuality but also about the existence and value of homosexual love in general during an era when homosexuality in Spain, and especially in conservative Granada, was generally, and preferably, hidden.
Daniel Eisenberg, Welcome to Spain, considered by sociologists as well as some gay organizations to be one of the -- if not the -- most tolerant societies in Europe when it comes to homosexuality. When she starts I almost never go to nongay bars back and playing hard to get, the guy will then feel as though he is being rejected and losing her, which will cause him to appear nervous or self-doubting, which will then turn her off.
Dan Bacon used to be hopeless with women. Women who are having a casual conversation and regularly looking around the bar or club are fairly open to being approached. Find all posts by Smapti.
Until you are willing to do that, you will be in the dark unfortunately. However, there is a huge difference between what most women SAY and what they actually DO in person and behind closed doors. To understand what to say and do at each step to get to kissing and sex, read The Flow or listen to the audiobook version, The Flow on Audio.